"We all have those moments in our lives were terrible things happen and I appreciate what you just told me. It takes a lot of courage to tell someone you jut met that kind of information. But things can get better if we try to live our life the best that we can." She tried her best to give him a comforting smile to make things seem a little happier. She didn't want to ruin their date by bringing up such depressing topics. She would feel bad if she made her apology to him end up terrible. She wanted him to feel comfortable while they were on this date, not him having to relieve his past.